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A Little Neighborly Advice

Please welcome Shera to the sofa.

OK, so I’m married and have feelings for my neighbor. I know he has the same feelings for me. It’s needless to say that I don’t have a great marriage and haven’t been happy for a long time. My problem is I just can’t get this neighbor out of my mind! What makes matters worse, I’m “friends” with his girlfriend. I don’t know what to do.

Junie: Relationships are difficult to keep alive and sometimes the temptation to cheat is overwhelming.  Pull back and take a good look at the situation. The feelings you have for your neighbor has more to do with what’s lacking at home. Do what ever you can to avoid an affair. At least make an attempt (professional help) to save your marriage. This neighborly affair won’t be worth the the price you’ll have to pay in the end.


February 3, 2009 - Posted by | confessions, lovers, secrets | , , , , , , , , , , , ,


  1. Don’t start an affair. Also is the neighbor also attracted to you? this has the potential to get really ugly and you don’t need that. have you considered getting counseling for your current relationship?

    Comment by Ricardo | February 3, 2009

  2. wow…i just have to echo jj & ricardo here…you’re already in a situation you’re not happy with (your marriage), adding an affair is not going to help that! and if all other people that are involved find out (which they will), it’ll end up in a shitstorm, and you’ll be the target.

    Comment by libby | February 4, 2009

  3. Love is a funny thing and never enough. Follow your heart not guilt. Passion can make strange and beautiful situations happen, but you might get shot too. If your after the thrill, you’ve got it.

    Comment by "Brad" | February 4, 2009

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