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Perfect Love/Perfect Lie con’t

Brie is back on the sofa to continue her story. (if you missed the beginning click here to catch up)

As I said our love story started out so beautifully. We looked like the perfect family to all who knew us.  But things started to change and I knew something wasn’t right the moment he stopped coming home on time. Kane began working very long hours and started traveling on weekends. I knew it wasn’t right but I think a big part of me didn’t want to know what was really going on. By now we had moved into a big house with a beautifully manicured lawn and all the toys. I covered for Kane when he didn’t make it to the kids soccer games or birthday parties. I told everyone that he was in the middle of an important deal and he had to work around the clock. I don’t know why I did it. I guess I wanted to believe it and I certainly didn’t want to disappoint everyone who thought we had the perfect love. Things went on like this for years. I took care of the kids and cleaned the house while he was always away somewhere making deals or who knows what. I lived in a beautiful house, drove a luxury car and never saw a bill. Many woman would have killed for my life but I was lonely and living what I knew to be a lie. This life was killing me.

One day when my oldest son was in third grade an older student came up to him and said my mom just had a baby and she is your sister. I was thankful that my son was too young to understand or believe such a thing. I told him that she had him confused with someone else and he forgot all about it. Of course Kane denied the alligation when I confronted him. I let it go and continued on with our little charade. There were days when I felt like I was being followed and times when the phone rang but no one spoke.

It wasn’t until an orange eviction sticker appeared on my front door that I began to think I could no longer hide from the truth. Kane said not to worry it must be a mistake and he would take care of everything. Once again I gave in to his confidence and went on with my life. It took my car being repossessed and a Christmas alone before I convinced myself that he was having an affair and didn’t care about us.

I went to a lawyer after the holidays were over and filed for divorce. I had the locks changed and threw his belonging out on the lawn. I told myself that I was strong and that my family deserved better. I found a job and let my lawyer take care of the rest. My court date was fast approaching when the notice went in the paper. That notice started a chain of events that my lawyer and I just couldn’t believe. Things like this only happen in the movies and certainly not in my life.

Junie: We will conclude Brie’s family saga later. One can only imagine the ending to this unbelievable story. It’s really good!

jj

February 18, 2009 Posted by | bad boys, family woes, saga | , , , , , , , , , , | 3 Comments

I Slept with your Boyfriend

perfume-girlPlease welcome Tonya to the sofa.

Please forgive me for this phone call. I slept with your boyfriend but it was purely an accident. We were drunk and it just happened. It was the night of your pool party. It happened when you were too busy to notice that we went upstairs to your bedroom. I have always been attracted to him but I never would have done this on purpose. I think he would have resisted me, if you had paid more attention to him. He has needs that you’re not meeting. You’re too busy with your job, your friends and too good to give him what he wants. If you plan to keep your boyfriend, you better start pleasing him for a change. If you don’t, I’m afraid you may lose him to girl like me. He is quite a catch and I’m not the only one who thinks so. The truth hurts but maybe this should be a wake up call for you.

Please don’t hate me because I’m not sorry it happened. I am sorry that I broke your trust. I hope that counts for something. Can we still be friends?

Junie: I’m really not sure what to say, other than I don’t think I would forgive you, if I were in your friends position. Sorry, but I’m just saying…….

jj

December 14, 2008 Posted by | bad boys, confessions, secrets | , , , , , , , , , , , | 3 Comments

Why I Stalk My Boyfriend

Please welcome Lucy to the sofa

This is a confession from a female stalker. I stalk my current boyfriend, Why you ask?  Because he is not very open or honest and I think he might be cheating on me. He comes home late a lot without an explanation.  I found a strange phone number in his coat and when I called it, a girl answered. I have started following him in my car after work and he stops off at a local bar quite often.  He has never mentioned this bar to me before, so I am suspicious. I need to come up with a good disguise that will allow me to go in and keep my eye on him.

He is a very sweet guy and treats me well but I may not be the only one he is sweet on. What do you think?

Junie: You might be right Lucy, but maybe you can find a way to confront him, without being accusatory. Good luck with your relationship. Do my readers have any good advice for Lucy?

jj

December 10, 2008 Posted by | bad boys, confessions, secrets | , , , , , , , , , | 6 Comments