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Is this unrequitted Love?

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I’m not a dating loser but I am really confused and need a little help. I have been dating this chick for a few weeks now and I really like her but something really weird happened last night. I thought we were getting close, I thought I was really getting to know her, then blamo it happened. She showed up at the restaurant with her two kids. She said she couldn’t find a babysitter. Not so bad right? Wrong! I didn’t know she had kids. What the hell! Did I miss a sign? Do you think I’m blind? Is this her way of saying ,so long sucker- I’m really not that into you. Are the kids some kind of secret weapon? She acted like it was no big thing, introduced her kids and carried on like nothing was out of the ordinary. I think I sat with my mouth open most of the evening. Did I mention that I really, really liked this chick and I thought we were getting somewhere in our relationship?

Junie: I think you nailed it,when you said, “how weird. ” Are you sure you didn’t miss her mentioning the kids? Is this a deal breaker or do you like her enough to dig a little deeper into the relationship?

January 5, 2009 Posted by javajune | lovers, secrets | bad dates, blind-sided, dating, dating don'ts, dating failure, dating revelations, not that into you, relationship killers, secret weapon, so long sucker, there's your sign, weird | 6 Comments

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